Improve or escape?

Yesterday my friend Shelia called posing a tricky Mother’s Day question. When it comes to Mother’s Day gifts, which is better: a gift that lets you escape motherhood (spa, manicure, passport and plane ticket to another country) or a gift that makes life as a mom easier (cleaning service, closet organizers, wife)?

My first instinct was to say “escape!” I mean, what new mommy doesn’t need a break?

Shelia said she was on the fence about this one. After some more discussion and thought, I see this is a tough one. Certainly, items that make the job of Mom a little easier are great. In fact, I already have a lawn service and get my meals from Dream Dinners. I’m kicking around the idea of having someone clean my house a couple times a month. I’m actually trying to eliminate all domestic duties from my life, so any gift that furthers that goal is perfect.

But, on the other hand, a break from motherhood certainly benefits a Mom’s sanity.

Seems to me the only solution is two gifts! Share your thoughts …